Experiences create the inner workings of lessons, and lessons are geared toward building the inner strength of a new human.

We must allow ourselves to experience the things that don’t work in order to appreciate the things that do.

There has always been a saying that has caught my attention, and an understanding that has caught nothing in relation to it up until now “We are all created equal(which holds true in all respects). We are also all created uniquely different as well in so many ways. If every walk of life(even within different species) were born to react and think the same, then we would all be horribly perfect or astonishingly incapable of growth through failure. If someone that you know were to tell you to be the perfect version of yourself, it may seem somewhat awkward to think of how to do so.

I have always landed on the side of the fence where being different was not only ok, but actually a blessing in todays world. Although failures and tough times came from that, I would not change what I have been able to take from those losses for anything. An approach that one understands as different from the normality is far more capable of an internally satisfying outcome. When you make something your own, and take responsibility no matter the circumstances or end result, your approach becomes what you want it to be, and not what you need it to be. When we find the things that we want, then we can understand them passionately enough to have them be what we need.

We exert our energy in ways that may not make sense to others, but make perfect sense to us. Most of us will go through tough times and find ways to point fingers because they are out of alignment. Some of us will go through similar problems and be able to utilize their perfect way of being imperfect to create everything needed to grow and eventually succeed. It is all about the acceptance of knowing that you are unlike anyone else. This will in turn make you ok with the fact that your inner gears click and run on their own frequency and that there is an irreplaceable beauty behind the fact that they do so.

What will you do today to understand your way of doing thing, and be proud of your approach despite the outside opinion of it not falling in line with the accepted way?